*Le Sigh*
My last post here was pretty whiny and I’m sure many people reading it felt the need to offer me some cheese to go with the impressive vintage I displayed. *smile* Today though I’m feeling so incredibly much better. I’m still slightly floaty and feeling yummy after a great weekend. The only thing that could have made it better would have been if I got laid too. More’s the pity that wasn’t really possible, but hey there’s always hope for the future!
One of the prospects that my wonderful Daddy has been talking to seems to be coming along fairly nicely, and there’s a small glimmer of hope that she can be more than just an occasional fun time on the weekend. That definitely seems to reduce his stress level since she dropped off the radar for a while. She’s now gotten back in communication with us and he’s really happy about that.
In other poly news, Duckie has managed to find a fairly serious girlfriend. I waited to feel the jealousy twitch so I could acknowledge it and deal with it, but surprisingly it never really appeared. I like her a lot; she has a great sense of humor, isn’t afraid to speak her opinion, and has common sense and intelligence which both seem to be lacking in the general dating population.
The girl in question is part of another poly/leather family, and I was somewhat anxious about how the dynamics of that would be affected by her dating Duckie. She’s the submissive of the head of that poly family, so there’s the obvious questions of what lines need to be respected while building the relationship.
The cool thing from my perspective (other than the fact that she’s cool enough to be completely respectful of mine and Duckie’s relationship) is that the dominant she’s submissive to is someone I’ve been lusting after in a number of ways for a while now. Nefarious’s very much into rope and suspensions, which I’ve wanted to explore and play with for a while now, and in the last year or so his play style has evolved to something much closer to what Pete and I have. We all three went up to their place this weekend to spend time together and it was definitely a good experience. There was a little drama caused by miscommunication and unseen emotional triggers, but we got it all fairly well smoothed out.
I’m still sore and achy in that oh-so-good way from the scene I had on saturday night. I got the rope bondage I love so much, and all the yummy hurty stuff that leaves bruises and marks for days. I didn’t quite get to that cathartic place where I cry inconsolably for ten or fifteen minutes and then can’t stop giggling for hours, but since it was the first time we played he didn’t want to push too much.
I’m getting the feeling that if all goes well both families could end up being an extension of each other. I’ve wanted to play with Nefarious for quite a while now. Sadly there was quite a long time when he seemed to have too many issues for me to deal with, but with certain changes in his life and his poly family he’s settled into himself and turned out to be someone I really enjoy being around. Not to mention that he’s as big a fan of biting as I am. *smile* There are a few other things he’s into that I’ve been very interested in exploring, but I think that’ll have to wait a little bit. It’s definitely more important to me to build a stable foundation for both families, and be supportive of Duckie’s new relationship with Z than to rush ahead with the fun stuff that I want. Unfortunately I can’t be little all the time…there are times to indulge in that, and times that I have to be a grown-up and act responsibly. Bleah…I hate those times….
Sounds like a very fun weekend.